Sunday, June 16, 2013

Babies and technology

Sara and I have been talking about how much is different today with the technology we have now. I am writing this on my phone, posting a picture taken with Sara's phone. We we able to video chat with both sides of the family in the hospital, on our phones. I was sending live group updates and pics to my family as his birthday progressed (Stroud side, hook yourself up with Google's Hangouts and I will do the same for you...). And I just checked on how he is sleeping on a wireless audio and video monitor. Crazy.

Well, what post is complete without a picture? Here he is after his first bath at home. His hair is awesome.

Nap time

I was using one of the baby wraps that Sara made to carry Oliver around as I did some laundry and ate breakfast, and it turns out to be a good nap aid when left partly on. This kid thinks daytime is actually nighttime I think...


Saturday, June 15, 2013

Home again

Just came home from the hospital. Real adventure begins now!

Friday, June 14, 2013

Oliver!

So I will probably just start dumping some photos here without much story, but then again with pictures of such a cute kid who reads anyways? Here is Oliver Jeffrey Franzen. 8lbs 10 oz, 20 in long. Born at 10 pm last night.

Oliver 2...

Here he is getting some love from mom and sporting a bow tie already.

Monday, June 10, 2013

Is being 'spiritual' enough?

This just became available online today.  Pretty excited about it.  It was a fun study to work on and it got placed in a really good journal.  Always nice to move on from projects...

If you are in need of some self-flagellation, let me know and I can send you the article.  (There was a page break on the abstract, so the screen shot wouldn't get it all...)



Thursday, June 6, 2013

Re-integrative medial interactions

The dream of reason did not take power into account.     - Paul Starr

Something I have been thinking a lot about lately (besides the fact that we are about to have a kid) in working on the dissertation is the place that power and authority plays in our interactions with other people.  We all have what Peter Berger call 'typification schemes' that allow us to quickly process, make sense of, and project our experiences of reality.  We get used to understanding certain actions of others as meaning something always - hugs show affection, yelling communicates heightened emotions, etc.  We use these cognitive tools to make sense of everything we experience and 'assign' meaning to it; we make sense of it.  We then assume that other people generally assign the same meaning to shared experiences, and on this basis are we able to have generally predictable interactions with other people. 

Sometimes, however, we are unable to make sense of some experiences.  When this happens we seek the help of someone we think can help.  This is what a physician is, essentially - a professional whose job it is to make sense of the experiences of others and ameliorate those experiences, assuming they are adverse ("so what do I have doc...").  Another dude, Talcott Parsons, once wrote about how illness is essentially the result of any given person shifting their self-perception to that of an 'ill' person.  This makes sense if you think about it - two people could both have a cold, and one asserts that they are 'fine' and goes to work while the other asserts that they are 'sick' and stays home from work.  One has shifted their identity while the other did not. 

Parsons asserted that one of the jobs of a physician is to re-integrate 'ill' people back into society as 'normal' people. 

What happens when a patient does not listen to their doctor though?  For example, someone may have trouble breathing but refuse the advise of their physician to stop smoking.  Starr, the dude who said the quote at the start, would say this is an instance where the physician has not successfully asserted their authority over the patient.  He thinks that one of the jobs of the doctor is to asses the nature of reality, which in this instance is the patient's experiences and needs.  The physician needs to interpret those experiences and the needs of the patient and literally create the conditions under which the patient thinks their advice is appropriate. 

This is where the interaction between a patient and a physician gets interesting though.  What if the patient is religious and makes sense of their world and experiences through a lens tinted by an engaged God?  The patient has a 'broken' identity when they are ill, and they are in need of being brought back to a state of 'normalcy'.  This requires that their physician successfully interprets and assigns meaning to their reality, but very often in a medical setting this meaning invoked by the physician does not include religious beliefs.  So we have a professional whose job it is to bring a state of normalcy back to a religious patient, but that 'normalcy' and meaning introduced by the physician is devoid of religious beliefs and meaning. 

Is it really possible for a religious person to be 're-integrated' with who they are in a setting that implicitly rejects religion?  Often this just leaves a bit more work for the patient to do on their own time, but recent changes in medical practice have gravitated more towards understanding patients in a wider sense than just a broken machine that needs to be oiled.  This is likely a good thing, but just as before, the interpretive work of the physician is a big challenge.  Cheers to you doctors who fully dive into the work you do.  Short cuts are easier, but they don't always get you to the same place or even where you wanted to go. 

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Who knows

We had another baby appointment yesterday and this was the first time that Franklin Maverick has shown any sign of getting ready to leave his current home. It was actually, according to the doctor, a pretty big change from last week. So who knows, maybe this kid will decide he doesn't actually need to be 10 lbs when he arrives.

This is a picture of him from a sono two or so weeks ago. Just forgot to put it up till now.

Thursday, May 30, 2013

on the move

Just hit 37 weeks.  Had an appointment yesterday and he seems to still be pretty comfortable where he is and not feeling like gracing the world just yet.  He is, however, an active little guy.  The Dr also said he felt really long to her... so maybe he is a heavy one because he is a tall one.  One can hope anyways.  

Finally caught him moving around on video.  Crazy.